Dear sisters

Dear sisters , I seek your wise and godly counsel as my spirit is disquieted within me.

My Dad 's elder brother 's widowed wife is Aunt Virginia. She is 80 plus, infirm, invalid and needs 24 hr assistance. She doesn 't have any children. She has day and night helpers who take care of her needs - 2 women and a house help.
Aunt V had alienated herself from all her relatives years ago. Her attitude and actions just turned off everybody. We were the only one' s who were good to her and Uncle and assisted and helped them and went the second mile for them. But they were always very mean to us. I cannot even describe the ways they hurt us and tried to harm us, more so after they retired.
Aunt Virginia depends on a certain Mr & Mrs P. to help her in many ways, and they do good work I am happy. But I came to know that Mrs P speaks to her quite rudely and her night helper -Sita too.

I feel bad about this but I can 't confront these women because Mrs P is a very contentious and foul mouthed woman, I can 't stand up to her verbal assaults ( she is a Christian mind you) -she will kill me in an instant.And if the night helper leaves then Aunt V will be all alone. Night helpers are hard to get.

Aunt V also is a very difficult person to deal with Her helpers say she drives them crazy, which I know is true.
Although I feel emotionally and spiritually disturbed I cannot do anything about it.I can only do what ever I can for Aunt V and leave the rest to God.
I can only commit Mrs P and the night helper Sita in God' s hands as talking with them will only worsen the situation. And Aunt V will also not sympathize with me - this has happened before. Once she was hospitalized and the helpers she hired were not doing their duty properly, in fact I did all the hard work in the hospital- all alone.
One day the helpers were insulting Uncle and Aunty and I stepped in and confronted them. The helpers were very mean to me, and uncle and aunty supported them. No one will believe this!.
So the best thing would be to keep silent, pray and let God have His way.
Do pray for this situation, for Mrs P and Sita who is not a Christian.